Pengalaman mengandungkan anak kedua~

Anak Mommy...

Anak first Wajdi.
Anak second Kazim.

Boleh baca tak rentak nama tu?

Ilham nama dari tokoh ternama di Malaysia, katanya.

Wajdi ilham dari nama Dato' Dr Asyraf Wajdi Dusuki.
Kazim ilham dari nama Dato' Ustaz Kazim Elias.

Moga akhlak dan peribadi mencontohi nama tokoh yang berkenaan.

Awal-awal pregnant, rezeki baby, Dedi dapat naik pangkat.
Dedi perlu lapor diri di Putrajaya, sedangkan Mami masih bekerja di JB.

So, terpaksa berkorban, buat sementara waktu, Dedi di Putrajaya, Mami & Yop Wajdi di JB.
Alhamdulillah Mami takde alahan masa pregnantkan Kazim.
Cuma, keadaan suami jauh, anak sulong tengah lasak & sedang mengandung anak kedua, is not a joke.

Rutin harian totally berubah.

Bangun pagi, mandi, bersiap ke kerja, hantar Jedi ke Taska, ke tempat kerja, kerja, balik kerja, beli makanan untuk dinner(selalunya drive through KFC je) ambil Jedi di Taska, balik rumah, dinner with Jedi, mandi, main-main dengan Jedi, siapkan barang taska Jedi (untuk esok), tengok kartun Jedi, tido.

Rutin tu berulang setiap weekdays.
Weekend baru Dedi balik.
Nasib Dedi balik setiap minggu, kalau tak dua beranak ni akan keboringan.

But, weekend for Johor & Putrajaya lain.
Johor = Jumaat & Sabtu
Putrajaya = Sabtu & Ahad.

So, u can imagine the short meeting for us!...huhu

Mami dah hantar surat transfer, tapi lambat dapat tukar.
I can only bear for a month, until decided to take unpaid leave for 3 months & we left JB for good.
Sayang & sedih nak tinggalkan negeri JDT ni.
Tempat tuai ilmu penguatkuasaan from zero to .... (belum hero lagi).
Tempat Mami & Dedi belajar hidup berdua, kemudian bertiga, rezeki berempat di tempat lain pula...
Pahit manis hidup at least 5 years di JB.
TQ JB, for everything.

Starting of unpaid leave is vacation for us and in laws family.
We went to Medan, Indonesia.
When Jedi was in my belly, we visited my in laws in Egypt.

So, i can say, it is fair & square.
Dua-dua anak merasa naik flight & ke oversea time dalam perut.

Then, balik dari Medan, Mami berehat sepuas-puasnya di rumah for 3 months.
Puas & takkan puas untuk jaga anak sendiri, No taska at all.

After 3 months of unpaid leave, I started my job at new place, CPF WP KL&P. Jedi dihantar ke Taiping, opah atok jaga.
Kerja dalam 2 minggu (plus EL, MC), kemudian bersalin on my due date; 18 Mac 2016.

Mengandungkan Kazim amat mudah sama macam Jedi.
Tiada alahan.

Tapi, sakit pinggang awal dah ada... tak masuk trimester ketiga dah sakit.
Tak boleh berdiri lama, nanti sakit rasa macam perut menekan pundi kencing.
Tidur malam tak banyak posisi boleh.
Maybe sebab dah kali kedua, jadi, urat-urat dah season (kah! sangat alasan)

Pengalaman bersalin on next entry...

The Challenges in 2016!

Hello peeps! (is there any?)
What a long time for me to write here again.
So many things happen in my life for the past few months.

1st.
I'm now working at Jabatan Kesihatan WP KL & Putrajaya.
Started Mac 2016, with my fat tummy containing baby; just about to give birth within 2-3 weeks.
My new working environment is quite interesting.
Meeting new people with new bossess and colleague.
New environment (i had to climb up the 3 storey building at least 2 times a day during working hours!!!).
New traffic all the way to and back from work .
And I had to face TRAFFICK JAM, which i never experience before in JB (in terms of going to work).
At first, i feel like crying, but now I'm getting used to it.

2nd.
On 18th March 2016, nicely on my due date, Im giving birth to a handsome, cute & genius baby boy, named Isma Kazim (although many people quiry about his name, whatever it is, I love the name so much).
He is 4 months already.
Smiling like a lava, giggling, playing, crying, is all he mastered.
Can also pronounce "MA" (which refer to me), "PAH" (which refer to his grandmother) and "DDII" (which refer to his Daddy).
He is definitely different from his brother; Wajdi, but i love them both so much!
Wajdi is very excited to play with his sibling. He even took his brother tiny finger to dig his (Wajdi) nose.
With Kazim's birth, my life slightly change, with never ending house chores, TIRED is a must.

3rd.
Talking about changes, this incident TOTALLY change my life.
Around May 2016, my husband caught with an accident with Navara.
He was riding a motorcycle, and most of the time, motorist receive the worst effect.
He got his bone fractured at right leg with both hands.
Warded for a week, with 2 times of operation, he is now recovering, Alhamdulillah.

Before this, I am all depends on him.
But now, I have to be strong to take care of him, kids and ME.

Before this, every weekend, we will go out for leisure with our kids.
But now, the tendency to go out is very minimal. (he is using wheelchair)

Before this, we plan to send our kids to nursery during our working ours.
But now, my parent take care of their grandchild at our house.
This is the good thing, Im always with my parent now.

Now, the area around Putrajaya (where our home is) is in my hand.
Driving to hospital, klinik or any other place (buy foods, groceries) now is just me.

Im so lucky to have someone (our parents & relatives) helping us in our daily life, regarding kids and many things that cannot be briefly describe here.

I pray for our happiness, good health and may Allah Bless and Protect us always.
Aamin..

Wajdi dah 2 tahun~~

8 Oktober 2015 lalu genap la umur anakanda Wajdi yang ke 2 tahun.

Mommy Cuma pack goodies untuk diagihkan kepada kawan-kawan dan teacher di taska je.

Keletah Wajdi:

1. Suka menari
2. Suka menyanyi, kalau tengah main dia suka pentomin nyanyi
3. Sangat obses dengan train (Kereta api).
4. Kuat cubit, sakit wooo
5. Boleh mengira 1 hingga 10 (BM & BI)
6. Bila mommy baca ABC atau Alif Ba Ta, boleh ikut sikit-sikit.
7. Mula mengenal warna; kuning, biru, hitam, oren, merah, hijau 

Mac 2016 InsyaAllah Wajdi akan jadi Yeop (Abang), dah mula terima hakikat akan dapat Dadek (adik)… hehe

2 minggu lepas, Wajdi tak sihat, mula2 muntah-muntah, cirit-birit kemudian demam.

Masa tak sihat tu, nampak dia memang tak larat, almaklumlah, tak selera makan.

Suka baring kat lantai, mungkin sebab lantai sejuk. Opah Atok dari Taiping datang nak jaga Wajdi, Alhamdulillah. Ambil masa 5 hari jugak, Alhamdulillah dah sembuh.Dah sihat ni, selera makan bertambah-tambah, lega hati Mommy tengok Wajdi mula makan dan minum.

Mommy doakan Wajdi sihat selalu akal fikiran tubuh badannya, sentiasa ceria dan cergas, sentiasa suka bermain dan belajar, agar dapat membesar menjadi anak yang soleh dan khalifah yang berguna kepada diri, agama, bangsa dan negara  di dunia dan akhirat. Aamin..

Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps

 Layan je lagu ni. Especially bila Siti Sarah yang nyanyi...

"Perhaps"

You won't admit you love me.
And so how am I ever to know?
You only tell me
Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps.
A million times I ask you,
And then I ask you over again.
You only answer
Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps.

If you can't make your mind up,
We'll never get started.
And I don't wanna wind up
Being parted, broken-hearted.
So if you really love me,
Say yes.
But if you don't, dear, confess.
And please don't tell me
Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps.

If you can't make your mind up,
We'll never get started.
And I don't wanna wind up
Being parted, broken-hearted.
So if you really love me,
Say yes.
But if you don't, dear, confess.
And please don't tell me
Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps,
Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps,
Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps. 

 

Sumber: Google 

 

Mommy nak Wajdi tahu

Mommy nak Wajdi tahu
Semua orang di dunia ni tak sayang Wajdi sepertimana Mommy sayangkan anak Mommy

Walaupun Mommy mungkin tak pandai pamerkan kasih sayang Mommy
Atau mungkin belum sepenuhnya dipamerkan

Mommy nak Wajdi tahu
Saat pertama Mommy tengok Wajdi
Saat itu juga Mommy dah jatuh hati
Wajah Wajdi terus terpahat di lubuk hati Mommy

Mommy nak Wajdi tahu
Marah Mommy pada Wajdi adalah untuk mengajar
Tiada sekelumit pun rasa benci padamu sayang
Moga kamu membesar menjadi insan berguna

Mommy nak Wajdi tahu
Awak zuriat pertama yang lahir dari rahim Mommy sayang
Kenangan manis yang Mommy takkan lupakan hingga akhir nafas Mommy
Moga menjadi teladan untuk adik-adik ye sayang

Mommy nak Wajdi tahu
Walau kita berpisah di dunia
Kasih sayang Mommy takkan hilang untukmu kesayangan Mommy
Mommy tetap ada dalam hati Wajdi selamanya

Eh, saya puasa la...T_T

Sweet moment husband & wife.


Dyh dah siap nak ke tempat kerja.
Turun bawah ke dapur, keluarkan epal, basuh dan potong dengan niat sebagai snek kat tempat kerja.
Sambil potong sambil terkecur-kecur air liur.

Tiba-tiba Mr.J muncul dan menyibuk. T_T

Sambil buka peti ais, Mr. J cakap sorang-sorang.
"Harini nak bawak jambu la pergi ofis" sambil nak keluarkan jambu dari peti ais.


Dyh: Awak bukan puasa ke?

Mr.J: Eh, saya puasa la...(sambil masukkan semula jambu ke dalam fridge....jalan heret kaki)

Dyh: (Terus potong epal dengan muka tak bersalah)
Dalam hati...taktau nak gelak ke nak kesian. T_T

Perkembangan Wajdi ~~ 1 tahun 10 bulan

Dah nak masuk usia 2 tahun anak Mommy.

Keletah memang dah pelbagai.
Lasak toksah cakap.
Terhantuk kepala banyak kali.
Terjatuh bangun semula pun selalu.

Baru-baru ni, terjatuh nangis beria.

Rupanya dahi berdarah. Atas sikit je dari mata.

Ya Allah, Allah pelihara.


Sebut Mommy & Daddy dah fasih.
Perkataan yang selalu disebut:


1. Mami (Mommy)
2. Dedi (Daddy)

3. Tu Tu; sambil tunjuk ibu jari ke mulut (Susu)

4. Baa..Baa (Nak tengok kartun Timmy Time kat phone)

5. Taatit (Sakit)

6. Maamam (Makan)

7. Atah (Atas)

8. Bawah (Bawah / Atas; masih keliru)

9. Birk (Bird)

10. Kkakkakk (Kakak)
11. Vaavii (Lori) err...

Dah boleh bina ayat dari 2 perkataan.

1. Nak Tu Tu

2. Nak Maamam

Tapi, kalau mommy sebut apa-apa ayat untuk ajar dia, dia ada usaha nak ikut sebut jugak.

Dah mula boleh tunjuk gambar yang sama (Banding dan beza).

Mula hafal jalan.

Kalau tengah dalam kereta, Daddy drive, dia akan tunjuk jalan yang dia nak pergi, kalau tak ikut, merengek-rengek dia.

Suka main lari-lari dan lompat-lompat.

Kalau dia tak puas hati, dah pandai pukul-pukul manja...tapi sakit wooo...

Boleh nyanyi sikit-sikit.

Kalau nyanyi lagu happy birthday, dia akan ikut rentak tapi hanya sebut Yuuuu (You)...

Lagu Twinkle-twinkle little star, hanya sebut Taarr (Star)

Lagu Allah Selamatkan Kamu, hanya sebut Mmmuu (Kamu)

Bila tanya; mana Mami?

Tuuu (sambil tunjuk Mommy)

Mana Dedi?

Tuuu (sambil tunjuk Dadddy)

Mana Wajdi?

Tuuu (sambil tunjuk dada dia)

Mana Opah?

Nerrr (mana)??? (sambil angkat kening tangan dua belah tanya mana la konon)

Paling obvious, kalau nak tidur, Wajdi akan pegang jari kelingking kiri Mommy dan guna untuk korek hidung dia. Biasa dia niii...

Pagi tadi Mommy dan Daddy hantar ke taska.

Dalam kereta Wajdi masih tidur dalam dakapan Mommy.

Tapi, bila sampai taska je, dia terjaga.

Menangis taknak teacher.

"Nak Car...nak car..."

Cian la pulak. Selalu ok je, tadi pulak nangis.

Takpe Wajdi, petang ni Mommy Daddy ambil yer.